That’s so brutal. The foster system is also really strange, from my broad thousand-foot view of it.
Maybe I’m way off base but it feels like some weird dispassionate state shuffle system where kids don’t get a stable family situation, they just get passed around a series of “halfway homes”, develop psychological problems from these constant disruptions in their development because duh, and then suddenly are “of age” and booted out to go work or something. (And likely end up on the street? Shocker!)
(This constant attempt to reinstitute child labor scares me even more in this context)
My wife and I were consulting various sources about adoption. We basically found out adoption is like some weird underground “baby market” that obviously favors the rich, and prices different genetics traits differently. (YEP!)
Directed to the foster system, it sounds like you just end up as a revolving door extension of a failed, undercut, under funded social program that “processes” kids through your house like inmate transfers.
No wonder statistics are so grim! My research suggests to me it was a replacement for the antiquated orphanage system of old but… Sheesh was it really an improvement? (Of the best examples, for the sake of argument, not the worst ones).
All this rabble rabble about abortion being legal or not, but it could be legal again universally, tomorrow, and conservatives wouldn’t have to worry about it actually happening so often if they fixed their freaking obtuse child-as-market-product system. If they actually cared about children, that is. Fat chance they’ll even think of that though.
Sorry I didn’t know this was such a button with me but I hope I added to the conversation LOL. Thanks for your post. <3 So many people are just…invisible. And it’s heartbreaking.
That’s so brutal. The foster system is also really strange, from my broad thousand-foot view of it.
Maybe I’m way off base but it feels like some weird dispassionate state shuffle system where kids don’t get a stable family situation, they just get passed around a series of “halfway homes”, develop psychological problems from these constant disruptions in their development because duh, and then suddenly are “of age” and booted out to go work or something. (And likely end up on the street? Shocker!)
(This constant attempt to reinstitute child labor scares me even more in this context)
My wife and I were consulting various sources about adoption. We basically found out adoption is like some weird underground “baby market” that obviously favors the rich, and prices different genetics traits differently. (YEP!)
Directed to the foster system, it sounds like you just end up as a revolving door extension of a failed, undercut, under funded social program that “processes” kids through your house like inmate transfers.
No wonder statistics are so grim! My research suggests to me it was a replacement for the antiquated orphanage system of old but… Sheesh was it really an improvement? (Of the best examples, for the sake of argument, not the worst ones).
All this rabble rabble about abortion being legal or not, but it could be legal again universally, tomorrow, and conservatives wouldn’t have to worry about it actually happening so often if they fixed their freaking obtuse child-as-market-product system. If they actually cared about children, that is. Fat chance they’ll even think of that though.
Sorry I didn’t know this was such a button with me but I hope I added to the conversation LOL. Thanks for your post. <3 So many people are just…invisible. And it’s heartbreaking.