• LandedGentry@lemmy.zip
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      3 hours ago

      Looking at this again - if the parents are the problem and explicitly not the kids, why is this post about the kid getting hurt and the adults laughing with glee?

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      18 hours ago

      So most kids that annoy you in public are the result of shitty parenting? Did you even read what I wrote?

      I can’t stand breeders and all that bullshit going on right now, but Anti-Natalism is getting way too popular and subtly permeating too many people’s opinions on kids. They’re just kids. Let them be kids, just like you were allowed to be.

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        11 hours ago

        I think both of you are talking about extremes here lol.

        One person is talking about shitty parents that refuse to correct their kids and the other about people that hate kids in general. Both can be true and annoying.

        I do agree there are some completely unhinged people/comments in the comments section here…

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          4 hours ago

          I am not being extreme at all. I’m saying words like “most” very intentionally.

          Posts like this aren’t about whether or not people think literally everyone or no one does something. It simply contributes to a culture of “kids annoy me and should be invisible.”

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        18 hours ago

        I’m talking about the op, picturing kids running around being a nuisance to the whole restaurant, which if the parents don’t do something about it then yes, shitty parenting

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          18 hours ago

          The entire point is what you consider “annoying” I consider “being a fucking kid.” And for some reason many Americans are so self involved and focused on “muh rights” they can’t even tell the difference.

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              You literally know nothing about me outside of a few sentences and that is an incredibly rude thing to say. It’s baffling to me how quickly people throw that accusation out at people.

              I get you don’t like my opinion but you don’t need to be cruel about it.

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                You literally know nothing about me outside of a few sentences

                And that’s enough to detect that you are or would be a dogshit parent

                and that is an incredibly rude thing to say.

                It’s cute how you always try to hide behind that. Idgaf you think it’s rude, based on the garbage you’ve spewed here it’s true

                It’s baffling to me how quickly people throw that accusation out at people.

                You’re defending one of the most obvious examples of bad parenting as not being that, are you actually an idiot or what?

                I get you don’t like my opinion but you don’t need to be cruel about it.

                Its not cruel to alert you to your shitty opinions and what they mean about you, dumbass

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            17 hours ago

            You’re making some broad assumptions. They don’t have to be silent, but a restaurant isn’t the place to be running around getting in servers way and disrupting other tables, and parents who let their kids do that lack discipline and are encouraging anti social behaviour