I’d absolutely love if my wife and I could do the separate bed thing, but she ain’t having that for similar reasons you describe. As such, we won’t live anywhere that won’t accommodate our cal king bed, because she sleeps like a starfish and queen and smaller is a no go.
My wife puts her hands on her chest which has her elbows out to the side, so I understand the challenge. We can usually make a queen work but a king is so much better. Last time we travelled we wound up in a double, which was awful for both of us!
I’d absolutely love if my wife and I could do the separate bed thing, but she ain’t having that for similar reasons you describe. As such, we won’t live anywhere that won’t accommodate our cal king bed, because she sleeps like a starfish and queen and smaller is a no go.
My wife puts her hands on her chest which has her elbows out to the side, so I understand the challenge. We can usually make a queen work but a king is so much better. Last time we travelled we wound up in a double, which was awful for both of us!