• ᚲᛇᛚ᛫ᛞᚨᛞᛁ@reddthat.com
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    I work in the trade industry. Most of these people are conservative boomers. The things these guys say are absolutely horrifying. It isnt just the older guys though. Its the blight of converativism. These dudes say things that sound like they should be said by someone 1000+ years ago or in Saudi Arabia or something. Im talking about not just racism, homophobia, mysoginy but also honor killings, reasons rape can be justified, flying into a blood rage because you feel another has offended your masculinity. Moving to rural America (even in the north) has been incredibly eye opening to how insanely backwards parts of our society is. You have no idea until you see it.

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      Casually mention that you’d no longer want to be referred to as “he/him but them/they” and watch the arteries burst lol

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        Ooohh, I know this one … it’s because they’re not in subject-verb agreement, right?

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      what nationality are these boomers you are talking about? They all sound white and maybe from Texas or a small town that got caught in a time warp.

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        White, but in Vermont. I think my fellow Northerners get way too smug regarding the “backwards” south. Go outside urban areas in new rngland and youll see the same situation

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          World is bigger than just cis white people. Having an iota of awareness isn’t being ‘smug’. Boomers aren’t just white people you know.

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            I dont see how that defeats what i said? I live in the whitest state in the union. Probably a contribution to the racism i see is the lack of interaction with diverse communities. People in the north absolutely have a tendency to think we lre perfect up here and its only the south that has racism and bigotry. But its not remotely the case

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        Trade (noun)

        a skilled job, typically one requiring manual skills and special training.

        “the fundamentals of the construction trade”

        synonyms: craft, occupation, job, day job, career, profession, business, pursuit, living, livelihood, line, line of work, line of business, vocation, calling, walk of life, province, field, work, employment, métier