• Kikkers@feddit.nl
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      1 year ago

      I can’t tell from the phrasing who is being called out and for what, so maybe everyone is filling in the gaps differently.

      • guylacaptivite@sh.itjust.works
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        1 year ago

        I’m pointing out that these guys are using the bullshit excuse that men don’t show emotions because of women. That is an incel argument that generalizes and vilifies all women as the enemy of manhood. Incredibly stupid and potentially harmful.

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      That doesn’t mean it’s because they were women. You said it yourself, you got in relationships with the wrong people and that’s the only valid conclusion to make. Don’t use anecdotal evidence like your personal experience to spew some bullshit about women somehow bullying men who show emotions.

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          Why did you reply to a post strongly implying that women have responsibility in men not showing emotions with your personal experience then? I know you are neither op nor oc. I’m speaking about your comment.

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              My reason is the harmful and completely unfounded bullshit you are engaging in. I will always confront this kind of speech.

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                Yeah okay, then I’ll just block you, it’s obvious you’re here to get outraged. Go touch some grass.

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                  1 year ago

                  You still wrote what you wrote. You should block that from your mind that would be actually helpful. And don’t brush off being confronted as me being obsessed with outrage. Stop saying stupid harmful stuff and actually think about it beforehand.