• Itdidnttrickledown@lemmy.world
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    5 hours ago

    I don’t immediately know another persons mood and temperament. I can however get a good read on it in a matter of minutes. If I’m around someone regularly I invariably identity if they lack of empathy by how cruel they react to anthers misfortune. Nothing extra sensory about it. Its just empathy.

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      5 hours ago

      And I’m saying that’s not what I typically think people mean when they say they’re an empath. I mean they mean something more than that.

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          4 hours ago

          And I’ve met plenty of people who can pick up on people’s moods and know that people who mock others’ misfortunes are cruel without calling themselves empaths.

          For what it’s worth, that’s essentially how Wikipedia describes it:

          Empath (/ˈɛmpæθ/; from Ancient Greek ἐμπάθεια (empátheia) ‘passion’) is a term for people who are claimed to have a higher than usual level of empathy.

          In parapsychology, the mechanism for being an empath is said to be psychic channeling; psychics and mediums say that they channel the emotional states and experiences of other living beings, or the spirits of dead people, in the form of “emotional resonance.” Studies of such claims have found them to be the result of mundane empathy and charisma, with no actual supernatural capabilities involved.

          https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Empath

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            3 hours ago

            Go away. I’m starting to think you are just trolling. Or you are one of those without it at all. Could be either but I’m done with this.

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              52 minutes ago

              I have empathy. I am not trolling. Just having a discussion online. Tone doesn’t always come across well oger text. Just thought it was important to share that I really really don’t think people who say things like this are saying empathy is bad.