• IronBird@lemmy.world
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    11 hours ago

    if it’s any consolation, does make the bar for picking up woman incredibly low, makes it easier for the rest of us i think. just don’t be a complete creep and your at top of the curve

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      12 hours ago

      I recently re-entered the dating pool for the first time in a decade and it’s incredible how much attention I get from just appearing clean, having my shit together, and not posting a picture with me holding a fish. Never got so much attention from women before in my life. Had a date in like one week.

      The bar is very, very low. I am sorry, ladies out there.

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        10 hours ago

        Lots of women who I know and date say “the bar is in hell.” Fr just be a functional adult with good hygiene and emotional intelligence and you are in the top 1%.

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          8 hours ago

          and emotional intelligence

          Thank you for telling me I’m unfit.

          say “the bar is in hell.”

          This reads like a joke or an exaggeration, but it’s really there.

        • zensanto@ttrpg.network
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          9 hours ago

          appearing clean

          It means he’s attractive.

          having my shit together

          It means he has money.

          If you lack both of these, it’s going to be rough.