I hope this is allowed. After the untimely demise of the only NSFW Lemmy instance, a Piefed replacement has come along: https://fedinsfw.app/

I hadn’t seen many posts about it, so I thought others might want to know.

  • IntrovertTurtle@lemmy.zip
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    2 days ago

    That’s gonna be an instance block from me dawg.

    Unless it’s a community dedicated to ousting and publicly shaming them, there should never ever be pedo comms. If the instance admins don’t/haven’t banned it and its active users, they’re complicit and should also be shamed.

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      15 hours ago

      Nah, Mr Grail is exagerating for attention. It’s more “petite 18yo who looks 16yo”, not “9yo getting abused” (obviously).

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        2 days ago

        I definitely think you are misinterpreting the community. It’s not my favorite community on the site but it doesn’t break any rules, everyone posted id 18+ and it a post is even remotely questionable it’s removed.

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            2 days ago

            Besides the gross factor, why? If it’s preventing actual CSAM from being consumed, that’s a good thing.

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              From a sex workers standpoint how fucked up is it to be told YOUR adult body is so obscene no one should ever desire to see it.

              If all the pedos want to congregate I believe it just makes it easier to track those fuckers, otherwise I feel that particular space is uncomfortable and just avoid it but I think it’s incredibly fucked up to tell any adult they aren’t a sexual creature like everyone else and that they should be ashamed.

              I do hope it is monitored closely though, slippery slope as it is

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                I mean, I get people’s disgust with it. It’s not just small women, it’s small women whose hair, make-up, and clothing is chosen with the purpose of making them look like children. I personally find the content gross, so I don’t consume it.

                But the people making it are consenting adults, and that’s all that should matter to the decision of whether it’s banned or not.

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              2 days ago

              Making porn doesn’t reduce demand for porn, it increases it. The community will likely make more pedophiles

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                  11 hours ago

                  Studies show playing video games raises short term aggression. But we have no hard data on the long term causative relationship between video games and violence, because it’s very difficult to cause patients to play video games for many years. I sure hope people are learning some of their moral values around violence from video games. I hope Wolfenstein makes people more violent towards neo-Nazis. I hope Horizon makes people more violent towards tech CEOs. I hope Subnautica makes people want to protect nature.

                  Now I’m going to cite Humm et al., (2020)'s insights into the psychology of first-time CSAM offenders. Most first-time CSAM offenders are unaware that what they’re doing is a crime, and they have doubts about the harmfulness of what they’re doing. In other words, they’re exactly the kind of people who tend to use the fauxbait community, and in fact they have a lot in common with people in this thread such as yourself.

                  Nonetheless, as a factor motivating onset, such exposure, or ‘opportunity’, is thought to have a ‘greater impact’ on an individual’s likelihood of viewing CEM than pathological motivations or drivers such as overpowering sexual urges

                  In other words, if you see this kind of porn by accident and you don’t think it’s that bad, you’re more likely to go on to become an online-only child sex offender.

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        2 days ago

        OK that’s a definite instance block. “Pedophilia doesn’t break the rules,” like motherfucker, that makes you just as bad.

          • Grail@multiverse.soulism.net
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            2 days ago

            Pedophilia is sexual attraction for children, and the community is for people who are sexually attracted to children. It’s full of fake child porn for pedophiles to masturbate to. @[email protected] is making the distinction that real child porn is against the rules, but fake child porn for pedophiles to masturbate to is not. @[email protected] is saying it’s disgusting that wanting to look at child porn is allowed, regardless of whether the child porn is real or fake.

            Those two statements look contradictory because you’re conflating pedophilia with child abuse. There’s no child abuse in the community, but there’s plenty of pedophilia.