i started this project on a laptop with plex, went to my old PC and some old work PC’s, but they were too crappy to do alot with.
but now i am finally confident enough to say this homeserver is stable. it’s been running for 2 1/2 months now without any downtime and it runs everything i need! (i might also add a MC server someday idk)

nextcloud for family photos
jellyfin for my digitalised LPs, CDs, some films and shows
joplin for notes
pihole to block trash network-wide
traefik to refer to my hosted services with a domain (i forgot what that’s called) but for example nextcloud.domain.com
So traefik is like a local dns?
Pihole is, traefik is a reverse proxy like nginx