If anyone is looking for a way to continue to support creators directly without subscribing to a million patreons, I really like my Nebula subscription, it’s quality content for around $30 annually. I’m tempted to get the flat rate lifetime subscription because they are doing it so much better than YouTube at the moment.
All you’re doing is telling other trans people that their gender recognition is conditionally valid only on their good behavior, and that it can be revoked if they piss you off. Maybe consider why this would make trans people feel unsafe with you, even if they are on your side politically.