Its my first meme, be gentle

  • eldavi@lemmy.ml
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    2 days ago

    It’s queer not somehow not automatically assumed when my example explicitly states men hooking up w men?

    • MinnesotaGoddam@lemmy.world
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      2 days ago

      i’m saying your example is wrong. it does not automatically assume when you’re a transman you’re going to be a man who hooks up with man. you’re just reading your own preferences into it because that’s what you’re looking for

      what is the word for ftm who hook up with women then? is heterosexuality that terrifying to you? or do they not exist like bi men and intersex folk

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          1 day ago

          Apparently according to eldavi if you’re ftm you have to love dick, not pussy.

          edit: i realize i could be misinterpreting eldavi but that would be admitting trans exclusionism and fuck that.

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            I understand where you’re coming from but lots of us queer folks don’t think of attraction in terms of genitals, and eldavi didn’t say you had to like particular genitals either. Back to your original point, transbians don’t only date other transbians, many date cisbians. Trans people who only date trans people use the label t4t.