yeah thats me. We are kinda unwilling parents as we inherited it from my father in law (before he died he just got to bad to take care of it). The little guy is a curmudgeon and kinda hates men (or just likes girls more) and we have a funny kind of competitive relationship. He struts in front of me and sometimes I back away to make him feel good. I just joke he is going to live forever and that he is might white angel of death over my shoulder.