laurenceOfSuburbia@lemmy.world to memes@lemmy.world · 20 hours agoIntroverts will do anything but ask for helplemmy.worldimagemessage-square65fedilinkarrow-up1850arrow-down16
arrow-up1844arrow-down1imageIntroverts will do anything but ask for helplemmy.worldlaurenceOfSuburbia@lemmy.world to memes@lemmy.world · 20 hours agomessage-square65fedilink
minus-squareA_Random_Idiot@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up10arrow-down2·4 hours agobecause a lot of us have learned that, while we have to be there for everyone and everything, no one will ever be there for us no matter what. So we endure and improvise.
minus-squareNotyou@sopuli.xyzlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·edit-22 hours agoSometime in my late 20s early 30s, I was told hyper independence is a sign of trauma. I’ve been working to trust people more, but it’s tough.
minus-squareA_Random_Idiot@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·2 hours ago I was told hyper independence is a sign of trauma Oh, I know.
because a lot of us have learned that, while we have to be there for everyone and everything, no one will ever be there for us no matter what.
So we endure and improvise.
This is exactly how I feel.
Sometime in my late 20s early 30s, I was told hyper independence is a sign of trauma. I’ve been working to trust people more, but it’s tough.
Oh, I know.