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  • echo@lemmy.todaytomemes@lemmy.worldHe was very mature about this
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    11 hours ago

    Both scenarios occur

    True

    I don’t think it’s [not] reasonable to say this “strongly” suggests one in particular.

    Disagree. He had a choice to either hear that she was experience pain/duress or that she’s exaggerating and/or misunderstanding. In either case, if he truly cares about her then he could/should seek to understand, communicate, and (if appropriate) compromise. That he immediately dismissed her and only talked of himself makes it clear that he’s an uncaring narcissist.

    I appreciate that you want to give him the benefit of the doubt. Narcissists depend on this. When they show you who they are, believe them.