• axh@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    I didn’t say it’s a bad thing. If someone tried to pay attention to every little choice they make, they would be exhausted before the morning coffee.

    What kind of browser I use is important to me, since I am a geek. But I don’t pay attention to many things that more socially adept people would consider important.

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        17 hours ago

        Rather, the trick is to figure out what is important for you individually and learn to not care for the opinions of others thst go past factual decision making information.

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          some things are worth your time and some things are not, you yourself decide what is what. You just have to know what is important to you and consider things that affect that. And to also know what things are not worth giving a fuck. The capitalist society also trys to make you care about worthless things so those too will fill up your attention.

          So in essence, if something isnt important to you and not caring about it doesnt make your life more difficult, let that thing go.

    • MonkderVierte@lemmy.zip
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      If someone tried to pay attention to every little choice they make, they would be exhausted before the morning coffee.

      Story of my life.