“Women on base, you better be careful. Port calls, women in Asia, you better be careful. Because these guys are going to be wild animals and you better watch out.”
“Women on base, you better be careful. Port calls, women in Asia, you better be careful. Because these guys are going to be wild animals and you better watch out.”
“women on base, you better watch out”
Straight men are getting more unfuckable every single day, holy shit
My girlfriend is 39 years old, she keeps telling me that she never felt so good around a men he whole life when she’s with me. I keep thinking how sad that is, but at the same time, i don’t like being around men either. I like my friends, but at work, as soon as some guy i don’t know talks a bunch, i keep wondering at what point is he gonna say something disgusti… Ah there it is. I’m not perfect by any means, but even when i was around 16 and started working, and geard these gross comments from my co workers, i kept thinking: i can’t wait unti i’m an adult and don’t find these comments gross as fuck. Apparently i never became a real man.
Yeah my sister is engaged to a guy who treats her very well and they’re both wildly in love with one another, his family has totally taken her in. It can happen.
I just think most women are doing the math and realizing there aren’t enough guys out there who are worth being married to to go around, and don’t think the gamble is worth it.
The tide is going the wrong direction but there are people out there not getting swept away.
It’s not doing us any favors when they’re creating government policies specifically to push the boulder downhill even faster.
This shook out so many “not all men” comments lol
Trying to blame this on all men (not sure why gay men are exempted?) instead of on Republicans is a great way to alienate a large portion of potential allies.
Next time a woman says something stupid on Fox News it is time to blame all women?
Many women (mothers, girlfriends, sisters, classmates) also play a major role in creating the warped masculinity that Watters is fantasizing about.
So if you’re looking for blame, it goes all over the place, including on closeted queer men like Lindsay Graham and Pete Hegseth and Jesse Waters and Andrew Tate and Ben Shapiro.
If you’ve heard someone taking about Rape Culture and thought to yourself “I don’t even know what that is”, you can always watch that video again and notice how all three other people on set calmly wait for him to finish, including the woman seated directly to his right.
lmao you think Democrats aren’t rapists too? Brother they did a fucking holocaust, you think they draw the line at rape? They’re just quieter about it.
This is absolutely an “all men” problem in terms of the culture men create and rarely speak out against, not literally in terms of each individual man.
When the Democrats are in power, they block the Epstein files. When the Republicans are in power, they block the Epstein files.
While I am not going to disagree about your conclusion, I am going to say that lumping this psychopathic rapist in with the average straight man is just about as inaccurate as claiming that he is an average American, or average human.
It takes only a small amount of risk to make an activity a bad choice. If 5% of people who walk through a neighborhood are mugged, anyone with a choice will avoid walking in that neighborhood, even though an overwhelming majority of 95% would be fine.
The calculation around dating is similar. If there is a 3% chance going somewhere private with a guy would result in nonconsensual sexual activity, it’s not worth doing. Not fair for the 97% or whatever of guys who have normal behavior boundaries, but life isn’t fair.
I’m not good at complicated math like addition and subtraction, so when it comes to something like statistics I might as well be throwing pickle slices at a dartboard, so you will probably have to correct me here… But if you have a 3% chance of being attacked by a man, doesn’t that also mean that since you have a 1.5% chance of being attacked by any human? In fact, since there is a non-zero chance of being attacked by a woman, wouldn’t it be accurate to say that you have a greater than 1.5% chance of being attacked by any human?
I’m not really sure that greater than 1.5% feels much safer than 3%.
So I guess what I am saying is that while you and the OP I originally responded to are both correct, that once we start throwing monsters in the pool then people’s desire to go for a swim doesn’t change significantly just because we double the size of the pool.
Actually, what I am really saying is that I just really don’t like any grouping that lumps me in with the pedophilic psychopathic rapists currently running the US.
Hey. Just a question. Say there’s a woman and she goes on a theoretical date. She gets tipsy sfter being plied with drinks and allows herself to be convinced to go back to a guy’s apartment. He insists “just to hang out” during that time he coerces her into some kind of act. Could be sex entirely or maybe sex without protection… When she sobers up she starts freaking the fuck out because under sober circumstances she would never of said yes to that.
You tell this story to a bunch of people and what’s the generalized perception of what went wrong? She should never have gone back to his apartment. She should have known better. She participated in a risky behavior and while everyone probably agrees the guy in the situation is absolute scum it remains - this outcome was horrible but culturally predictable.
Also your assessment of whether that three percent is an even split is forgetting a lot of other data. Across the board your chance of encountering any kind of violence is 4-8x more likely to be perpetrated by a man rather than a woman. 1 in 5 women have experienced rape and that number jumps up to 1 in 3 when you broaden the term to sexual assault. About 90% of those reported sexual assaults are perpetrated by men. That means if you are a woman between 20% to 60% of all the other women you know statistically speaking have been sexually predated on by a man at some point and that’s just the ones we know are reported because a lot of people cope with sexual assault by never speaking of it to anyone.
That’s no lightning strike. That poster lowballed you significantly on those statistics .
Women are taught to interact with men the same way you are instructed to interact with city traffic and they aren’t nessisarily wrong to do so. Remember, that 1 in 5 or 1 in 3 is still happening in a world where women are instructed to minimize risk by altering their behaviour. This is under circumstances where women are educated of those dangers and treat men as risks which means they have mitigated some of the attempts. Don’t leave your drink, don’t enter a car of a man you aren’t 100% aware of, meet perspective dates or those you aren’t sure of in public, Don’t be alone where others can’t hear you, Don’t go out after dark, when someone warns you about an individual take that seriously, here’s the code you can tell your bartender to eacape an attempt, let your friends and parents know where you are and are gunna be, here’s the weapons to out in your purse, here’s the red flags to look out for…and they still are 1 in 5 and 1 in 3.
Really well said.
Thank you for saying this, it really helps to see this acknowledged publicly here.
That’s not how statistics work, at all.
Men are far more likely to rape or assault women than women are to assault men.
Keep in mind another aspect is that your average man is bigger and stronger than your average women as well.
Na bro theyre 100% correct, at least here in America, us straight men are a fucking catastrophe. And yes im much better than the average one because i don’t condone rape culture, but im part of the minority here.
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As a straight guy, I can’t disagree.
When I came out as gay 8 years ago to my mom she promised me I would never have happy and fulfilling marriage. Knowing my mom mostly knows only straight men, I can 100% confirm she is right if I was picking from her pool.
All the men I know are good for you
I don’t even bother dating.
Dating is just dumb, it’s a way for capitalism to profit off lust and nothing more. My friends can’t get a girlfriend and they’re constantly on the dating apps going on multiple dates a week. I try to tell them yeah because the tech bros are creating algorithms to make money off you, not to actually find love and happiness. But they don’t listen they think im crazy but they all think my GF is hot and we never dated wcyd.
I definitely think you’re correct about the algos. I was never shown anyone who id remotely be interested in. I guess that’s common.
I would argue that I don’t agree with Jesse Waters or Pete Hegseth and am still somewhat fuckable, although I understand why you feel that way.
Then you dont have to identify as the average straight man lol
I like big bowls of soup and animal-spirit-affinity-based divination, so if you asked I’d probably go have a bowl of peyote ramen with you.
I think you’re very fuckable good sir.
Jeez, this comment shows the hyprocrisy among u left so much, it’s incredible.
Care to explain what you mean? I’m not sure I understand this retarded comment.
It just shows that when leftist are doing generalizations it apparently is fine, but when ‘evil’ conversatives are doing it, then they are literally Hitler.
Using an ableist slur while trying to defend leftist ideology is not very great
Ablest, but thinking any side talking about rape jokingly is approved. Go fuck off dude, so ignorant and dumb you are.
lol no I think you’re both lobotomites, don’t worry
It’s very hurtful of you to group me together with monsters like this. It would be like me yelling at you for ruining Skype because you’re Estonian. That would be stupid.
They didn’t group you together with monsters, you did by taking offense to it.
It’s my fault for being born a certain gender and orientation? I should just be another gender/orientation? You do realize how shitty it is to say that to someone, right?
No it’s your fault for assuming they were talking about you, unless you are the kind of male they were talking about?
Show me where they said “straight men just like ayyy”.
I’ll wait.
My cousin worked for Skype…